Career//1 min read
Live beyond your title
Professional identity can easily become tightly linked to our titles. Here is how to build an identity broad enough to withstand transition — rooted in curiosity, values, and purpose.
I’ve been thinking about how easily our professional identity can become tightly linked to our title — especially for those of us who have grown steadily in our careers. As I reflect on it, I recognize a subtle risk — the fear of losing that title, and with it, a part of myself. That realization can be unsettling.
Even without a major change, there’s often a subtle fear beneath the surface — What if one day I’m no longer this? Who am I without the title attached to my name?
While researching this topic, I revisited James Clear’s Atomic Habits and a talk by Professor Dr. Arthur Brooks on identity crisis. Both explore how a narrow identity — built around a role or position — can leave us vulnerable when life shifts.
Clear warns that when we say "I’m a CEO" or "I’m a professor" rather than "I’m a builder" or "I’m a learner," we create an identity that’s brittle — one that collapses if the role disappears. Brooks takes this further, describing how even accomplished professionals can experience an identity crisis when their success becomes their only reflection.
That struck a chord with me. The fear isn’t just about change — it’s about realizing that confidence built purely on external labels can vanish when those labels fade.
The challenge, then, is to build an identity broad enough to withstand transition — rooted in curiosity, values, and purpose, not titles or achievements. Because true professional maturity isn’t just reaching a position. It’s learning to stay grounded even if the position changes.
References
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
- Identity Crisis: Why Defining Yourself by Your Career Is a Problem by Dr. Arthur Brooks